RUAJedi2 Posted June 29, 2023 Share Posted June 29, 2023 I said hypothetically, dammit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerina Posted June 29, 2023 Author Share Posted June 29, 2023 HYPOTHETICALLY...my spouse would be laughing his ass off while I tried to politely faked a stomach bug. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RUAJedi2 Posted June 30, 2023 Share Posted June 30, 2023 Hypothetically someone just got a message that "something came up" so there will be no weekend visit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tank Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 Amateurs. Ever since my polyamorous bisexual swinger girlfriend moved in our hotel stays with other people have increased. We’re looking for a rewards program. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerina Posted July 1, 2023 Author Share Posted July 1, 2023 hotels.com You don't have to stick to a particular chain. Our only hall pass is Britney. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tank Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 For both of you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerina Posted July 2, 2023 Author Share Posted July 2, 2023 Yes. It's only fair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monkeygirl Posted July 19, 2023 Share Posted July 19, 2023 I feel so vanilla Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth Krawlie Posted July 19, 2023 Share Posted July 19, 2023 Never forget, vanilla is delicious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tank Posted July 22, 2023 Share Posted July 22, 2023 Especially when you jam a thick piece of chocolate into it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacen123 Posted July 22, 2023 Share Posted July 22, 2023 6 hours ago, Tank said: Especially when you jam a thick piece of chocolate into it. This isn’t your relationships thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tank Posted July 23, 2023 Share Posted July 23, 2023 My bad! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerina Posted February 15 Author Share Posted February 15 On 10/4/2022 at 4:01 PM, Cerina said: Background info: My husband Trevor and I started dating in May 2000. We moved in with each other that summer and stayed together until October 2001. He moved out, we broke up. He eventually joined the Navy and married some random girl moments after she turned 18. I started a friends with benefits sorta thing with one of his closest friends, Jason. Jason and I kept this up for years. Real feelings developed but we never upgraded our status beyond friends with benefits. Trevor eventually left the Navy and came home, wife in tow. They divorced. I balanced a friends with benefits thing with both Trevor and Jason for about a year, but it was tumultuous to say the least. Eventually, Jason was slowly replaced by Trevor, and in 2007 I got pregnant with Noah. Trevor and I married in 2011, and things have been pretty solid with us ever since. Trevor and Jason had a falling out not too long after, and we've only seen him a small handful of times since. Also of note, about 8ish years ago another mutual friend of all of ours told Trevor and I that Jason had told her that he regrets not taking things further with me back then and that he feels I'm "the one that got away". I had always assumed that my feelings were stronger than his, and if I had known this at the time, there's a very real chance that I never would have started things back up with Trevor. Ongoing issue: About once every 2-3 months, I have a dream about Jason that brings back all the old feelings. They're insane. The dreams are never sexual but always very intimate, usually about reuniting or finally breaking down and admitting feelings or something along those lines. Now during the normal course of my life, I don't spend any time thinking about Jason at all. And under normal circumstances, I can admit that I miss him and our friendship (we had a very close bond beyond all the sleeping together), but I don't carry any lingering feels other than that. Trevor and I even talk about him every so often as he was a huge part of both of our lives for many years and so many of our good-ol'-days memories include him in some way. However, when these dreams happen they seriously throw me off. You guys ever have dreams that feel so real that you keep the feelings with you for hours or even days after you wake up? This happens every time. For a day or so after these dreams, I basically float about in a daze of longing and heartache. Like I said, I don't really think about him normally, but for a good 24-48 hours these feelings are very real. And then I start thinking about reconnecting - I still have Jason's number (it hasn't changed in so long that I actually have it memorized from the early '00s) and know where he works (head of security at the outlet mall). So I start envisioning myself finding him and sparking up a friendship again. (I do actually miss his friendship. He helped me deal with my and Trevor's breakup in so many ways. I would have spiraled into a much deeper depression without him.) So I don't know what to do with all of this. I had one of these dreams last night, so today I'm sitting here in my office trying to concentrate on work but instead keep thinking about what might have been, how much it feels like I have a hole in my life from the loss of his constant friendship, and fighting the urge to text him. Like I said...the feelings are very real right now despite everything I know about my normal feelings. Somebody tell me that I'm not crazy. Update! Despite having these dreams regularly for over a decade, I actually have not had a single one since I posted this almost 18 months ago. Therapy works you guys. Even if it's just ranting online. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tank Posted February 16 Share Posted February 16 This post means you'll have a Jason dream by the weekend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacen123 Posted February 16 Share Posted February 16 Just make damn sure you spell that name the right way and not in a Star Wars way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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