Zathras Posted June 13, 2020 Share Posted June 13, 2020 I am very sorry to hear this too, MS Spam. My most sincere condolences to you about your Mom. Also, I hope you get well soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms. Spam Posted June 13, 2020 Share Posted June 13, 2020 Thanks guys. I am just glad she is in peace. It was super hard seeing her like that. Alcoholism is a HORRIBLE way to die. She literally drowned in her own lung fluids. The Covid 19 can fuck itself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tank Posted June 13, 2020 Share Posted June 13, 2020 So sorry, what an awful experience for both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iceheart Posted June 13, 2020 Author Share Posted June 13, 2020 I am so sorry you had to go through that, and lost your mom. Thats awful. Is there anything we can do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Odine Posted June 13, 2020 Share Posted June 13, 2020 Ahhh shit. Sorry Spam that's so awful. Sending you virtual hugs. Hope you are ok! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacen123 Posted June 13, 2020 Share Posted June 13, 2020 I am so sorry, too, Spam. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms. Spam Posted June 13, 2020 Share Posted June 13, 2020 I lub you guys and gals. I'm weirdly at peace but still super sad. The hardest part is going to be telling my Nan. We haven't told my Mom's Mom. She's 102 as of last month. I think secretly she knows because they had this strange connection. Nan always knows when Mom is in trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Skywalker Posted June 14, 2020 Share Posted June 14, 2020 I'm so sorry, Spam. She has been through so much, and you have, too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerina Posted June 14, 2020 Share Posted June 14, 2020 I'm really sorry as well. Losing a loved one is never easy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spider-Man Posted June 14, 2020 Share Posted June 14, 2020 My condolences, Ms Spam. I hope that you have the support you need both virtually and physically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monkeygirl Posted June 15, 2020 Share Posted June 15, 2020 Aaaaaaaannd. My Mom passed away today at 5 AM ish. OH, SPAM! That's why you were on the road. I am SO sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pharoah JZA Posted June 15, 2020 Share Posted June 15, 2020 Sorry for your loss, Spam.Keep ya head up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R.CAllen Posted June 15, 2020 Share Posted June 15, 2020 Condolences. Obviously (suppose this goes w/out saying but nevertheless) try to take care of yourself as best you can, under the circumstances. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth Ender Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 I am sorry spam...that is awful. I think one reason for the exhaustion in me is the days seem the same. I remember hearing time goes faster when you don't have memories to sort it out. As a kid and a teen new shit is always happening. A lot of firsts. It seemed like a magical time. As adults, we fall into routines. Even my fun, my soccer league is routine...same days...my gym routine is the same...and so on. Now those things are pulled away and days are just slipping through our hands like sand. It is kinda like if you are lazy all day, you are even more tired that night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms. Spam Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 Today is the memorial. Super small because of Covid. I cant sleep. We are so sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zathras Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 I am sorry for you to go through this, Ms Spam. I know it is easier said than done, and I hope you don't mind me saying so, but try to remember the good times with your Mom, and try to celebrate her life today. Your mom would want you to remember her in happier times. I speak from experience, because someone told me the same thing, once. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iceheart Posted June 18, 2020 Author Share Posted June 18, 2020 Im surprised youre even holding a memorial right now. My grandmas longtime BFF died back on my birthday, and who knows when the memorial will be. How did it go? How are you holding up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerina Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 Your mom was beautiful! I hope you can remember her that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iceheart Posted June 21, 2020 Author Share Posted June 21, 2020 Rudely hijacking this thread back... I took three naps today, and I'm planning on going to bed before midnight. wtf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms. Spam Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 Thanks everyone. We did a family only service to help my Nan understand mom was gone. She forgets sometimes and thinks mom is at the store or she tries to call her and we took the phone out already so she gets all mad because the number says its disconnected. I bought a special rosary for Nan to hold. Sometimes she remembers mom is dead and cries for her baby. I have sat with nan holding her hand watching the mountains burn and just telling over and over mommy has gone to be with grandpa. Then nan cries a lot. It doesnt help my Aunt is Xanaxing the shit out of it. They tried to put Nan in a nursing home but she tied up their phone lines so bad no one could get through. She hated the home and would call and cry to be taken home. Yesterday we had to get Tim on task. I cant stay forever to actually clean Moms house. We have a chotzsky room full of stuff. And there was so much dirt and dog piss and cat barf we had to scrub the floors like we are cleaning a restaurant floor at closing to squeegy it and mop it. Tim let coyotes eat Moms dogs and chickens. Its taking a lot to not want to smack him. Matt thought one of the cats got out and was trying to get it back and it turned out to be a bobcat. It was so cool. I will try and post pics on Facebook of the bunny rabbits that run around the culdesac at moms house. I am just so tired. And sometimes they just want to pitch everything. Not save anything of moms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Skywalker Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 I actually think the wanting to pitch things is normal, because it's easier, and when you're grieving, it can dig up a lot you just can't handle. My moms family is horrified by the things I trashed. I mostly kept pictures and 2 of her porcelain angel collection. I gave one to a friend of hers to remember her by. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerina Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 Ok for real though, why didn't you just slap Tim into next week? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Skywalker Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 Ok for real though, why didn't you just slap Tim into next week?I need warning, you should sell tickets. I want front row. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms. Spam Posted June 22, 2020 Share Posted June 22, 2020 I cant even with Tim. Even my brother, Matt, is getting pissed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monkeygirl Posted June 23, 2020 Share Posted June 23, 2020 'Yesterday we had to get Tim on task.' Not to be insensitive but O RILLY? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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